恋爱感染艾滋病真当不是说说的24岁女孩讲述自己的故事提醒年轻人一定要注意性安全


恋爱感染艾滋病真当不是说说的24岁女孩讲述自己的故事提醒年轻人一定要注意性安全

 
 
 
 
 
恋爱感染艾滋病真当不是说说的24岁女孩讲述自己的故事提醒年轻人一定要注意性安全
2009-05-02 20:51

《艾滋病传播途径出现新情况,恋爱同居感染艾滋病的人数在增加》,浙江艾滋病关爱家园的时代强主任呼吁,年轻人要慎重对待婚前性行为,如果一定要同居,最好先做体检。
报道刊出后,关爱家园的一位因恋爱同居感染艾滋病的24岁女孩子,犹豫再三后,决定把自己的经历说出来,提醒年轻人,对待性一定要慎重。

 

女孩两年前大学毕业。出于对她的保护,我们隐去了她的名字、职业和工作单位等真实信息。昨天下午,按照电话中约好的地点记者和她见面。面前的她温婉礼貌。她的嘴唇有点发干,说这段时间单位工作很忙,没休息好“,脸黑了吧,很难看吧。”其实她算是一个美女,平时爱逛街买漂亮衣服。她说,单位的同事都蛮喜欢她,但是也有几个女同事会说她坏话“,也许是嫉妒吧。女人最无能的战争就是嫉妒。我也会嫉妒,但不会立即表现出来,也不会持续太久。”看上去,她是个独立、开朗的女孩子。

 

我像所有人一样不会想到艾滋病会找到自己感染前,我对艾滋病的了解仅仅是它有3 种传播渠道,其他一无所知。当医生告诉我感染了艾滋病病毒时,我感觉他是在说别人的事情。

今年3月份,我感觉下腹老是坠痛,到医院妇科做检查,以为是妇科毛病。医生说:

告诉你一个不幸的消息,你感染了HIV( 艾滋病病毒)。当时我没反应过来,叫医生再说一遍。医生看我比较镇定,就把结果又说了一遍,其实我是不相信这样的事情会落到我头上,蒙了。

( 说这些时,女孩很平静。她说事情已经发生了,重要的是去面对,过多的抱怨没有用)

在医院坐了半个小时后,我没有哭也没有表情。当医生把我送到医院门口时,我和他说了声“ 再见”。然后眼泪就不断地往下淌,我一路哭着回到了家。说是家,其实只有我一个人,父母都在外地,男友也在外地。有种末日来临的感觉。我知道艾滋病的严重性,从医生的眼神里我也感觉得到。最初一个月,我下班后就是喝酒、睡觉,不见任何人,因为我的压抑和痛苦不能告诉任何人,包括我的父母和男友。

我不知道是被谁感染的和一个人好,就完全信任他他是我第二个男友,第一个现在联系不

到。我不知道是被他们中哪一个感染的。

第一个男友是大四时谈的。他开了一家公司,认识没多久我们就在一起了,那时很单纯的,和一个人好,就完全信任他,根本没想过健康的问题。不到一年,我们分手了。每次

我们发生性关系时,都不采取安全措施。现在

想想,这是很可怕的事。

两年前,认识了现在的男朋友。3个月后我们同居,发生性关系也不采取安全措施。说到底,还是性安全的知识太少了。自从确诊阳性后,我和他就没有过性关系了。我曾经想开车冲下高架,现在好了整天卖力工作查出后的一个月,我总是计划着怎样才能出车祸,希望快快了断自己。这样的生活太闷了,让我窒息。有一天,开车在高架桥上,突然想直接开下桥去,但最后还是放弃了。

有一天,我又一次计划着车祸。妈妈打来电话,叮咛我要吃好,注意身体。平时她也是

这样叮咛的,我都嫌她唠叨,可那天挂上电话后我哭了。至少这个世界上还有最关心我的

人,为了他们我也要好好活着。

那些天,我尽量不去想自己感染HIV的事,一如既往地上班,非常卖力地工作。下班后回到家,难受时就把电视音量调到最大,然后痛哭一场。有时就打电话给妈妈,说自己很好,其实就是想听听妈妈的声音。后来,我到了关爱家园,认识了时代强主任,也认识了其

他病友,大家互相鼓励,也认识到艾滋病并不是那么可怕,有人感染后几十年不发病,完全

像健康人一样生活。接受快报的采访是想提醒其他年轻人不要发生我这样的不幸这两天我很开心,因为我的免疫细胞已经正常了。我想我可以像健康人一样生活一辈子。目前我想得最多的就是好好工作,还有我的男友,这段时间我准备让他做检测。

我们肯定会分手的。今后要找,也只会找感染者。对传染给我的人,我现在也没有恨的感

觉。不想让自己不开心,恨也于事无补。现在接受你们的采访,是想提醒其他的年轻人,不要发生我这样的不幸。我妹妹明年就要大学毕业了,正在谈朋友,我想提醒她,但又不知道怎么跟她说,我希望还是社会告诉她比较好。

那个第一个说出自己感染艾滋病的女大学生,我觉得她很伟大。她用自己的经历告诉社会,艾滋病其实离普通人并不遥远,看来很正常的恋爱、同居也会感染。我也想做伟大的事,但是我不伟大,我只是想用心去做微不足道的事。今天说自己的故事,你是除医生以外的第二个人。

When true love is not infected with HIV to talk about the 24-year-old girl tells the story of their own to remind young people must pay attention to security 2009-05-02 20:51 "means the emergence of new AIDS cases, living together in love in the number of people living with HIV increased," Zhejiang AIDS home care director of the era of strong appeal to young people to be careful to treat pre-marital sex, cohabitation, if we must, it is best to do a medical examination.
After published reports, a home care due to HIV infection in love living together for 24-year-old girl, after hesitating over and over again and decided to tell their stories to remind young people must be careful to treat sexual.


Girls graduating from university two years ago. For the protection of her, we fade to her name, occupation and work unit, such as real information. Yesterday afternoon, according to the location of the phone's appointment to meet with her. Before her gentle courtesy. Made her lips a bit dry, and that this period of time to work busy, no rest, "a black face it, it is difficult to Check it out." In fact, she is a beautiful women, usually love to buy beautiful clothes shopping. She said that the unit都蛮like her colleagues, but also have a few female colleagues would say she down, "you may be jealous. The most incompetent woman is jealous of the war. I would envy, but it will not show up immediately, not will continue for too long. "It appears that she is an independent, cheerful girl.


I had no idea that I like, like all of us will find themselves infected with AIDS, I understand about AIDS is that it only has three kinds of communication channels, the other ignorant. When the doctor told me that when infected with HIV, I felt he was talking about other people's business.

In March this year, I always feel fall in the lower abdomen pain, gynecological check-ups to the hospital, thought it was gynecological problems. The doctor said:

Unfortunately, I'll tell you a message, you are infected with HIV (AIDS virus). At that time, I did not respond to them, call a doctor to repeat it. I am more calm doctor, they repeated the results, in fact, I do not believe that it might fall on my head, a Mongolian.

(That they, the girl was very calm. She said that things have taken place, it is important to face, no use complaining about too much)

Half an hour sitting in the hospital, I did not cry and no expression. When the doctor to the hospital in front of me, I and he said the sound of "Good-bye." And then tears down on the constant drip, I cried all the way back home. That is a fact, I am the only one person, the parents are in the field, the field is also her boyfriend. Endemic to the feeling of doom. I know the seriousness of AIDS, from the doctor's eyes I can feel. The first month, I was drinking after work, sleeping, not any person because of my depression and pain can not tell anyone, including my parents and boyfriend.

I do not know by whom a person is infected and good, there is trust him he is my second boyfriend, the first contact is not

To. I do not know which one of them was infected.

The first was a senior when her boyfriend to talk about. He opened a company, we recognize not long together, and then very simple, and a person, and trust him completely, never simply a health issue. Less than a year, we broke up. Each

We have sexual relations, do not take proper safety measures. Now

Think about it, that is a terrible thing.

Two years ago, the understanding of the current boyfriend. 3 months later we live do not have sexual relations by taking safety measures. After all, security is still too little knowledge. Since the confirmed positive, I and he never had sexual relations. I have tried to drive down the overhead, what we have now found a day after the hard work of the month, I always plan how the accident, hoping to settle their own as soon as possible. Such a life is too boring, let me suffocate. One day, driving on the viaduct and suddenly want to go directly under the bridge, but finally gave up.

One day, I once again plan a car accident. Mother made a phone call, exhort, I eat well, pay attention to the body. She is also usually

This exhort, I have a nagging suspicion she may be hanging up the phone after that day I cried. There are at least in the world are most concerned about my

People, to them I should make a living.

Those days, I try not to think of their own HIV infection, and, as always, work, work very hard. Home after work, when hard to put the largest TV volume, and then a cry. Sometimes called the mother, said that he very good, in fact, would like to hear the voice of her mother. Later, I went to a care home, Qiang, director of awareness of the times, but also understand its

His patients, we encourage each other, but also recognizes that AIDS is not so terrible, it was not for several decades after infection onset, entirely

Life as healthy people do. Express to accept an interview other young people would like to remind me not to occur, unfortunately, the last two days I am very happy because I have normal immune cells. I think I can live as healthy people do all their lives. At present, I would like most is to work, as well as my boyfriend, this time I am prepared to let him do testing.

We will certainly break up the. To find the future, it will only look for infection. To spread to me, I now do not hate the flu

Sleep. Do not want to own unhappy hate it does not help. To accept an interview with you now because I want to warn other young people, do not I have the unfortunate occurrence. My sister will be graduating from college next year, and are talking about friends, I would like to remind her, but do not know how to tell her, I would like to tell her or the community better.

The first to say that their female students infected with AIDS, I think she was great. Her own experiences tell the public that AIDS in fact is not far away from ordinary people, it seems very normal love, cohabitation will be infected. I also want to do great things, but I do not great, I just want to do little things carefully. Said today that their own stories, you are in addition to the second person other than a doctor.