新疆:艾滋母亲血泪托孤
2010-03-29 09:11:00 来源: 新疆天山网-新疆都市报(新疆)
3月26日上午,当新疆天网家园公益群的网友将募捐的400元生活费送到秦怡(化名)家的时候,秦怡正在拆家里的一张床,秦怡说有位收废品的大姐愿意出5元钱收购。床只拆了一半,秦怡已是满头大汗,气喘吁吁。见来了客人,秦怡忙用抹布将拆剩下的半边床擦了擦,招呼大家坐,嘴里一直念叨着“放心坐,我都擦干净了”。屋子里,满是消毒水的味道。
凌乱的客厅里,一张志愿者捐献的学生书桌是家里最好的家具,桌子上摆着她和儿子小斌的照片。窗台的电话旁,一张卡片上写着志愿者Yuki的电话号码,秦怡已经不记得给儿子叮嘱过多少次,“如果哪一天我走了,你就给这位阿姨打电话,他们会帮助你们的。”
五年前,艾滋病带走了小斌的父亲,如今,秦怡的生命也走进了倒计时,而唯一让她放心不下的,就是儿子小斌。
天山网讯(记者张福军报道)
“我怎么会得这种病?”
1997年,29岁的秦怡认识了从湖北来新疆打工的丈夫大明。四年后。秦怡和大明结婚组成了一个家庭。
结婚后秦怡一心想要孩子,但却一直没有怀孕。那时秦怡已经辞去了原来的工作,和大明一起做起了生意,但做什么赔什么,生活一直比较艰难,也就一直没有去医院检查。有时两人也想着不要孩子了,年龄大了,生活又如此窘迫,有了孩子生活可能会更加艰难。
然而,2003年下半年的一天,秦怡突然感到身体不适,去医院检查后被确诊为怀孕,得知此消息后,夫妻两人欣喜若狂。
做了母亲的秦怡幸福地计划着自己的未来:继续做点小生意,生孩子后买个属于自己的房子……
由于经济窘迫,直到怀孕7个月时,秦怡才去了新疆医科大学第一附属医院做了全面的孕期检查。
2004年3月4日上午,秦怡永远忘不了那一天,医院通知她去拿检查结果。到了医院,医生将她一个人叫到办公室,指着化验单上的HIV化验结果说:HIV阳性。
啥意思,是癌症吗?看着医生严肃的表情,秦怡的心咯噔一下。
是艾滋病,医生冷静地说。
“什么,艾滋病?这是那些坏女人才会得的病,自己怎么可能会得这种病,不可能。”秦怡觉得天快要塌了。
后来,夫妻两人一同去疾控中心做了复查,检查结果显示,夫妻两人的HIV都显示为阳性。“怎么会得这种病?”情绪有点失控的秦怡问医生。
做检查的医生抬了抬头,问站在秦怡身后的大明,你是不是吸过毒?大明轻轻地点了点头。原来丈夫有着十多年的吸毒史,注射吸毒时感染了艾滋病。那一刻,秦怡突然觉得丈夫变得那么陌生,同床共枕了那么多年,她竟然没有发现丈夫是一个瘾君子。
“离我远点,你那么脏”
说起丈夫时,秦怡的表情显得很平静,像是在说别人的事。秦怡说,流的泪太多了,已经没有泪了。
因为感染艾滋病,秦怡想过放弃孩子,也想过放弃自己的生命。那时她天天以泪洗面,不吃不喝。后来得知可以通过母婴阻断技术防止孩子感染艾滋病,在丈夫的哀求下,秦怡去了妇幼保健院,做了母婴阻断。
2004年5月11日,孩子通过剖腹产手术出生了,HIV检测为阴性,母婴阻断成功,孩子健康。
而这时,丈夫大明的艾滋病症状已经非常明显,抵抗力非常弱,经常生病,腰都直不起来。幸福,离这个家庭正渐行渐远。
2005年冬天,大明的病越来越严重。一天,大明说要回湖北老家看看,秦怡因要在家照顾孩子不能随行。大明走的那天,她亲自将大明送上了火车。然而,这一去,竟是永诀。
大明回家仅半个月,婆家的人就打来电话说他走了。他们在电话里对秦怡说,大明死了,你想改嫁就改嫁吧,你和孩子以后跟我们没有关系了。随后电话就挂断了。
茫然中,秦怡把自己的遭遇告诉姐姐,没想到,姐姐听完秦怡的诉说后后说:“谁让你当初嫁给他的,以后自己的事情自己解决吧。”说完扭头就走了,再次见面,已是在父母的坟前。相对的姐妹俩没说一句话,姐姐警惕地与她保持着距离。从墓地离开时,看到姐姐差点摔倒,她上前扶了一下,姐姐却赶紧甩开了她的手。
“你离我远点,你那么脏。”
“这样不会传染的,我学习过了。”
“没这么简单。”
这是记忆中秦怡姐姐对她说得最后一句话。
对于家人的态度,秦怡说自己能理解。“如今的家里,电视是他们凑钱给我买的,还帮我装了部电话,帮我交电话费。如果哪一天我死了,他们也能知道。”丈夫走了,和姐姐也断绝了来往,秦怡没有了家。
(来源:新疆都市报)
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新疆:艾滋母親血淚託孤
Xinjiang: HIV mother's blood and tears Tuogu
2010-03-29 09:11:00 Source: Xinjiang Tianshan - Xinjiang Metropolis Daily (Xinjiang)
March 26 morning, when public interest groups to their homes in Xinjiang Skynet netizens will be live on 400 yuan donations sent to Qin Yi (a pseudonym) house, Qin Yi is being demolished home, a bed, Qin Yi said that there bits received waste products Sister willing to pay 5 yuan acquisition. Bed only half demolished, Qin Yi is already sweating, panting. See to the guests, Qin Yi busy with the rag and wiped his split the remaining half of the bed, greet you sit, your mouth has been talk over the "comfort ride, I wiped clean." Room, full of disinfectant taste.
Messy living room, a volunteer student desk is the family donated the best furniture, table arrayed with pictures of her and her son Xiao-bin. Telephone windowsill next to a card read the telephone number of volunteers, Yuki, Qin Yi has been admonished not remember how many times to his son, "If one day I pass away, you give the aunt called, they will help you. "
Five years ago, AIDS, Xiao-bin took the father, now, Qin Yi's life, into the countdown, while the only thing that worries her is the son of Xiao-bin.
Tianshan News (Reporter Fujun report)
"How can I get this disease?"
In 1997, the 29-year-old Qin Yi know from her husband working in Xinjiang, Hubei Ming dynasty. Four years later. Qin Yi and Ming dynasty formed a family wedding.
Qin Yi bent to have children after marriage, but it has not been pregnant. At that time Qin Yi has resigned as the original work, and with the start of the Ming dynasty business, but what lose what life has been more difficult, also has not gone to hospital for examination. Sometimes they also thought not to have children, and older, and life is so embarrassed, with the child's life may be more difficult.
However, the second half of 2003 a day, Qin Yi suddenly felt sick to hospital after being diagnosed as pregnant, learned this news, the couple went wild with joy.
Done a mother's Qin Yi happy with their future plans: to continue to do a little business, after a child buy their own homes ... ...
Because of economic distress, until 7 months pregnant when the Qin Yi before going to the First Affiliated Hospital of Xinjiang Medical University, did a full examination during pregnancy.
March 4, 2004 morning, Qin Yi will never forget that day, the hospital informed her pick up test results. To the hospital, the doctor summoned her office of a person, pointing to a single laboratory test results on HIV, said: HIV-positive.
Han means, is cancer? Doctors looking at a serious expression, Qin Yi Deng about the heart slightly.
Of AIDS, the doctor said calmly.
"What is AIDS? This is a bad woman who will get the disease, how could themselves have a disease, it is impossible." Qin Yi think the days of going to collapse.
Later, the couple went together to the CDC has done a review, test results show that both husband and wife are shown as HIV-positive. "How will get this disease?" Has become somewhat out of control Dr. Qin Yiwen.
Doctor for check-ups carried the rise, and asked to stand behind the big Qin Yi-ming, you is not smoked drugs? Daming gently nodded. Former husband, has 10 years of history of drug abuse, injecting drug users were infected with AIDS. At that moment, Qin Yi suddenly felt her husband become so familiar with, share this bed for so many years, and she even did not find her husband is an addict.
"Go away, you are so dirty"
Speaking of her husband, the Qin Yi all looked very calm, like to say things others. Qin Yi said, tears flow too much, has no tears of.
Because HIV infection, Qin Yi thought of giving up their children, but also thought of giving up their lives. At that time she was in tears every day, eat or drink. Later that blocking technology to prevent mother to child through a child infected with HIV, her husband's pleading, the Qin Yi went to the maternity and child care homes, has done a PMTCT.
May 11, 2004, children born by Caesarean section, HIV test is negative, the success of PMTCT, child health.
But this time, her husband Daming symptoms of AIDS have been very clear that resistance is very weak and often sick, and my waist is not all straight up. Well-being, from this family is gradually diverged.
The winter of 2005, Ming dynasty's illness is getting worse. One day, big-ming to return to his home in Hubei see Qin Yi because they have to care for their children at home can not be accompanied. Daming go that day, she personally Ming dynasty sent the train. However, this go, was actually separated by death.
Daming home only half a month, her husband's family that people who phoned to say he was gone. They said on the phone right Qin Yi, Ming dynasty is dead, you would like to remarry on the remarriage of it, you and your children with us since there is no relationship. Then the phone hung up.
At a loss, the Qin Yi own experiences to tell his sister, did not expect that to tell his sister listening to the post-post-Qin Yi, said: "Who did you marry him, after their own affairs and their own resolve it." Having turned away and left , and meet again, is the grave of their parents. Relative sisters did not say a word, my sister with her warily kept their distance. Departure from the cemetery to see her sister almost fell down, she approached the Rotary a moment, but hastened to throw off her sister's hand.
"You go away, you are so dirty."
"This is not contagious, I learned of."
"I did not as simple as that."
Qin Yi This is a memory of her sister, put my last sentence.
For the family's attitude, Qin Yi said he can understand. "Today's home, TV is that they chip in to buy me, but also helped me installed phones, help me Jiaodianhuafei. If the day I die, they can know." Her husband left, and sister have also cut off the contacts, Qin Yi is not home.
(Source: Xinjiang Metropolis Daily)
2010-03-29 09:11:00 來源: 新疆天山網-新疆都市報(新疆)
3月26日上午,當新疆天網家園公益群的網友將募捐的400元生活費送到秦怡(化名)家的時候,秦怡正在拆家裡的一張床,秦怡說有位收廢品的大姐願意出5元錢收購。床只拆了一半,秦怡已是滿頭大汗,氣喘吁籲。見來了客人,秦怡忙用抹布將拆剩下的半邊床擦了擦,招呼大家坐,嘴裡一直念叨著“放心坐,我都擦乾淨了”。屋子裡,滿是消毒水的味道。
凌亂的客廳裡,一張志願者捐獻的學生書桌是家裡最好的家具,桌子上擺著她和兒子小斌的照片。窗台的電話旁,一張卡片上寫著志願者Yuki的電話號碼,秦怡已經不記得給兒子叮囑過多少次,“如果哪一天我走了,你就給這位阿姨打電話,他們會幫助你們的。”
五年前,艾滋病帶走了小斌的父親,如今,秦怡的生命也走進了倒計時,而唯一讓她放心不下的,就是兒子小斌。
天山網訊(記者張福軍報導)
“我怎麼會得這種病?”
1997年,29歲的秦怡認識了從湖北來新疆打工的丈夫大明。四年後。秦怡和大明結婚組成了一個家庭。
結婚後秦怡一心想要孩子,但卻一直沒有懷孕。那時秦怡已經辭去了原來的工作,和大明一起做起了生意,但做什麼賠什麼,生活一直比較艱難,也就一直沒有去醫院檢查。有時兩人也想著不要孩子了,年齡大了,生活又如此窘迫,有了孩子生活可能會更加艱難。
然而,2003年下半年的一天,秦怡突然感到身體不適,去醫院檢查後被確診為懷孕,得知此消息後,夫妻兩人欣喜若狂。
做了母親的秦怡幸福地計劃著自己的未來:繼續做點小生意,生孩子后買個屬於自己的房子……
由於經濟窘迫,直到懷孕7個月時,秦怡才去了新疆醫科大學第一附屬醫院做了全面的孕期檢查。
2004年3月4日上午,秦怡永遠忘不了那一天,醫院通知她去拿檢查結果。到了醫院,醫生將她一個人叫到辦公室,指著化驗單上的HIV化驗結果說:HIV陽性。
啥意思,是癌症嗎?看著醫生嚴肅的表情,秦怡的心咯噔一下。
是艾滋病,醫生冷靜地說。
“什麼,艾滋病?這是那些壞女人才會得的病,自己怎麼可能會得這種病,不可能。”秦怡覺得天快要塌了。
後來,夫妻兩人一同去疾控中心做了複查,檢查結果顯示,夫妻兩人的HIV都顯示為陽性。 “怎麼會得這種病?”情緒有點失控的秦怡問醫生。
做檢查的醫生抬了抬頭,問站在秦怡身後的大明,你是不是吸過毒?大明輕輕地點了點頭。原來丈夫有著十多年的吸毒史,注射吸毒時感染了艾滋病。那一刻,秦怡突然覺得丈夫變得那麼陌生,同床共枕了那麼多年,她竟然沒有發現丈夫是一個癮君子。
“離我遠點,你那麼臟”
說起丈夫時,秦怡的表情顯得很平靜,像是在說別人的事。秦怡說,流的淚太多了,已經沒有淚了。
因為感染艾滋病,秦怡想過放棄孩子,也想過放棄自己的生命。那時她天天以淚洗面,不吃不喝。後來得知可以通過母嬰阻斷技術防止孩子感染艾滋病,在丈夫的哀求下,秦怡去了婦幼保健院,做了母嬰阻斷。
2004年5月11日,孩子通過剖腹產手術出生了,HIV檢測為陰性,母嬰阻斷成功,孩子健康。
而這時,丈夫大明的艾滋病症狀已經非常明顯,抵抗力非常弱,經常生病,腰都直不起來。幸福,離這個家庭正漸行漸遠。
2005年冬天,大明的病越來越嚴重。一天,大明說要回湖北老家看看,秦怡因要在家照顧孩子不能隨行。大明走的那天,她親自將大明送上了火車。然而,這一去,竟是永訣。
大明回家僅半個月,婆家的人就打來電話說他走了。他們在電話裡對秦怡說,大明死了,你想改嫁就改嫁吧,你和孩子以後跟我們沒有關係了。隨後電話就掛斷了。
茫然中,秦怡把自己的遭遇告訴姐姐,沒想到,姐姐聽完秦怡的訴說後後說:“誰讓你當初嫁給他的,以後自己的事情自己解決吧。”說完扭頭就走了,再次見面,已是在父母的墳前。相對的姐妹倆沒說一句話,姐姐警惕地與她保持著距離。從墓地離開時,看到姐姐差點摔倒,她上前扶了一下,姐姐卻趕緊甩開了她的手。
“你離我遠點,你那麼臟。”
“這樣不會傳染的,我學習過了。”
“沒這麼簡單。”
這是記憶中秦怡姐姐對她說得最後一句話。
對於家人的態度,秦怡說自己能理解。 “如今的家裡,電視是他們湊錢給我買的,還幫我裝了部電話,幫我交電話費。如果哪一天我死了,他們也能知道。”丈夫走了,和姐姐也斷絕了來往,秦怡沒有了家。
(來源:新疆都市報)
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