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21岁艾滋病女孩有过一段特殊经历 怎么才能救救她
2011-07-21 06:19:45 杭州网
每天都要挂很多点滴，她手臂上都是针孔。 记者 朱丹阳 摄
认识杭州市第六人民医院感染科主任时代强已经5年，这是他在采访联络之外，第一次给我打电话。
“我想救一个人，不知道怎么办才好？”上周五晚上9点，电话里时医生的声音既疲惫又无奈。
难道她曾经错了
就不能对生命有渴望？
时代强医生想救的是一位21岁姑娘，患脑膜炎。这是一种由来已久，有特效药，并不太难治的病。“就缺2万元。有就是生！没有就是死！”
我打断他，“当然要救啦！”
电话里传来长长的叹气声——“她有艾滋病，她有一段特殊经历，她很穷，已经欠了医院1万块，她父母拉着我的手哭着说要出院，她自己也似乎放弃了……”
我没有说话，顷刻间明白了时医生的欲言又止，语气透出的焦急、痛苦和纠结。
时医生反复问我：“你有没有什么办法帮帮她？”
一时，我
无言以对。
他急切地说：“这是活生生的一个人！一条命啊！
“她只有21岁呀，还这么年轻。我女儿也只比她大2岁呀。
“她的脑膜炎我完全有把握治好！
“她的艾滋病可以控制住，后续由国家政策免费治疗。她还可以活好几十年，有大把的时间呢。”
最后，他用近乎哀求的语气反问我：“难道她曾经错了，就不能对生命有渴望？”
时代强医生今年58岁，从医33年。
15年前，他由感染科医生转为专攻艾滋病控制及研究。
我觉得，他从事的是一项需要有奉献精神的事业。多少年来，他科室里有很多医生护士改行或转到其他科室去了，他始终都在。
这么一位好医生，能打动他的病人，总归也有善？有真？或有其他一些不一样吧？
前天和昨天，我在市六医院感染科病房呆了两个下午，观察了解这位女孩。
2万元，救还是不救？
我把她的故事说给你听。
回去
就是等死
6月27日，周一，傍晚6点。时代强医生印象深刻——
半个小时前，邵逸夫医院来电：有一位脑膜炎女患者血液检出患艾滋病，紧急送到市六医院来。
我和童永喜医生站在医院门口等。6点刚过，120急救车到了，担架工抬下一位姑娘。
她状况很差。面色苍白、嘴唇没有血色，身形瘦削。让她起身，询问病史，根本站不稳。
我告诉她：“你被送到这里来治，我们对你没有任何歧视，你可以放心治病。”她眼睛里没有任何神采。
“那时，她病得很重很重，我们把她从鬼门关拉了回来。”在时医生的办公室里，童永喜医生激动地对我说，我们看着她一点点好起来——她头痛好转了，可以吃东西了，能下地走了，会笑了，会小声说谢谢……我们这么多医生、护士，花了大力气救她回来。
上周一，时医生刚上班，女孩妈妈跑到时医生办公室说：“我们要回去了。”
前一天，女孩妈妈刚交进2000元住院费。
“就是因为所有的钱都掏出来了，还是不够。欠医院的一万块钱，我们一定会慢慢还的。”妈妈几乎要哭出来。
“你们回当地继续治吗？”时医生这么一问，妈妈眼泪水淌下来，说不出话，摆摆手。
“我知道我一点头，她一回去，就是等死。”时医生没有同意出院。
第二天，时主任发动
科室内部给女孩捐款。
我急切地询问
她只有沉默沉默沉默
前天下午，我在医生办公室见到这位女孩。
她轻手轻脚地走进来，实在是很年轻，白皙的面庞上没有一丝皱纹，一丁点瑕疵和斑点。
清秀、瘦削、身形娇小，住院服松松垮垮地套在身上。
她清澈分明的那双眼睛，我一眼望去，好像望不到底，那种透出来的深深的忧伤，我找不出词来形容。
时医生告诉她，这是快报记者小张，我的好朋友，我们大家一起来帮你想办法。
她背微微弓着，低着头，双手手指相互使劲地抠着。不知是害怕还是紧张，脚趾一个劲地往里缩。
“拖鞋是红色的，喜欢吗？”
“喜欢。”
“为什么？”
“上面有小兔子。”
“最喜欢白色，清爽。”
她静静地等待发问。我问一句，她答一句，每次只说几个字。
“你说说你家的困难，你对以后有什么打算？”时主任提高声音，痛心地说：“我们都没放弃，你自己怎么可以放弃？”
她抬起头，嘴唇动了动，还是沉默。
我们把她妈妈叫进来，妈妈一口方言，几乎没办法听懂成串的句子。妈妈断断续续说一些，她翻译一些，大概是说——
他们来自江西特别偏僻的一个小村子里，开门就是田，进城要先走很长一段山路，再坐一个多小时汽车。
她从小特别听话。帮爸妈田里干活，插秧、种土豆，七八岁的时候就可以从早上6点干到晚上6点。
全家的生活来源只有4亩地，还有做竹子的手工活。
很穷，孩子们没有钱读书。
哥哥读到初一，去做泥水工了。
姐姐读到初二，去服装厂打工。
她读到初二，也没有读下去了。
她穿姐姐旧衣服长大，亲戚送她一件橘色运动服，很喜欢。她体育最好，跳绳一分钟能跳一百多下。她小时候养了一只黄白相间的小猫，难得吃一次鱼，她省下来给猫吃。
妈妈坚称女儿17岁离家去“打工”是被骗去的。“我们村里的人和我说，‘我带你女儿去大城市里卖衣服。哪里知道她会去KTV。她怎么一直在骗我啊。”
妈妈哭的时候，女孩双手五指深深地插进头发里，用力把脸埋进臂弯，还是沉默。
她什么都不说
保护她曾经爱过的男人？
因为要调查女孩的艾滋病染病原因，时医生和童医生从女孩本人、她妈妈、她姐姐那里详细地询问女孩的性生活经历。
2007年，17岁
，女孩在姐姐的服装厂打工。“半年后因为谈了男朋友。妈爸把她押回家。”
2007年年底，村里有人说带女孩到桐乡卖服装。女孩去了。
“那是一家KTV，老乡帮我化妆，叫我端盘子，帮客人点歌。陪唱歌。第一次是和一个中年男人，是老乡带我去吃饭时认识的，没有要钱。”
2009年到今年年初，在苏州一家KTV，基本也是陪唱歌。“有偿性服务吗？”时医生问。她回答了一遍又一遍，坚持“我是不出台的。不然这么几年了，也不会一点钱都没积攒下来。”
“一次都没有？”时医生问。她低声说，房租交不出的时候，也有过的。
时医生和童医生面面相觑，问：“你有没有男友？有男友几年了？”
女孩答：“分手了。同居一年多。”
时医生怀疑“会不会是你男友传给你的？”
女孩不愿说话，问急了，答：“我不知道他做什么工作。他和我已经分手了。”
气氛有点紧张。
回去的路上，我不明白，为什么她不愿求助，至少也说说可怜？
她的沉默，让我有一种挫折感。可是她转身走的时候，那个半弓着身子的背影在我脑子里挥之不去。
她想学跳舞
想开店
她想要自己孩子以后过得不一样
她曾试图应聘过饭店服务员
我想了解她。前晚，我登录女孩的QQ空间，她有留言：
7月10日12:38，希望在哪里？
7月15日7:59，没有那么多钱看病？
7月18日17:49，好痛苦。
7月16日，女孩的前男友曾经来看过她。
我向时代强主任要了女孩前男友的电话（经时主任询问，男友目前暂无艾滋病发病迹象）。
男友比女孩大3岁，中专毕业，他说自己在苏州一家公司做小职员。“她大致是了解我做什么的。”男友说。
他眼里的女孩是这样的——
2010年6月22日晚上，苏州。朋友约好吃饭。她走过来，好像闪闪发光。我们好了以后，她说，好像一切都有了依靠。
她在KTV上班，我是知道的。她和我说，没有什么，我相信她的。但是，为这事，我们吵过很多次，不让她去。
她也答应我，出来过。没有工作的日子，她装作很忙，其实是在街上转来转去。可能是没有学历，也可能应聘饭店服务员失败，不知道怎么的，一段时间里都没有找到工作。一段日子，复杂坎坷。
我家没什么钱，我每个月赚2000来块钱，她大致也是如此。房租800元，家是10平方米一间房，里面一张床，一台电脑，厕所是公用的。
没有钱的时候，我们两人一天各吃一碗6块钱的拉面，然后坐在床上，不出门，聊天。我说，我要去学开车，拉货，以后开公司，你当老板娘。她说，她要为我生个孩子，孩子以后要过不一样的生活。
去年10月，我去西安老家学开车，花光了我们所有的钱，共一万多块。最缺钱的时候，她给我送来1000元钱，我不知道她怎么弄来的。这钱真是派上了急用。
你爱她什么？
“天真、可爱。”男友说。
“那为什么分手？”
“因为今年春节时，我去她家里拜年，没有送礼，那时是没有钱，路费就花了不少。她爸爸妈妈不喜欢我。所以三个月前分手了。（女孩妈妈曾说，亲戚说这个男孩太穷，过年都没带礼物，让人没有面子）
“上个月，她打电话告诉我，头痛，去邵逸夫医院查出脑膜炎，艾滋病的事情我是后来才知道，我也很害怕。”
“她有艾滋病，还有脑膜炎，你现在有钱帮帮她吗？”
男友说：“会的。我刚去看过她，我有多少都会给她。她见到我时，哭成一团稀泥，说认命了。”
她问
我还有没有希望？
昨天下午，女孩因脑膜炎发病，头痛得快裂开了，只能仰卧。
我在她耳朵边说：“你前男友说要为你筹钱治病的。”
一瞬间，豆大的泪珠从眼睛里滑下。这是我两天来第一次看到她哭。她问：“我还有没有希望？”
拉开女孩床头的抽屉，药丸、药片、几个苹果、空塑料袋、毛巾，别无他物。
问她妈妈，还有多少钱？妈妈有些难堪，用手掏掏口袋，掌心摊开，是捏得汗涔涔的两张100元。妈妈说，她爸已经回老家要把田转了，想到杭州来打工，或许能多赚一些钱。“今年原本有
13亩田，大概可以赚两三万，现在算了。”
在姐姐印象里，这位妹妹脸上常挂着笑。
妈妈只记得，女儿出生的时候，‘哇’的一声特别嘹亮。现在只能每天守着女儿。她心里也有白发人送黑发人的准备。“一想到这，心就很凉。”
昨天临走的时候，时代强主任在市六医院大门口挂了一个牌子和捐款箱，上面是倡议书，里面有一句：
我们呼吁社会各界朋友伸出友爱之手，帮这位年轻姑娘一把，让她渡过难关，走向生的希望，走向漫长的人生之路。
（感谢通讯员黄彩红的帮助）
来源：都市快报 作者：记者 张姝 编辑：郑海云
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21-year-old girl with AIDS had a special experience how to save her
2011-07-21 06:19:45 Hangzhou Network
Bit by bit every day, hanging a lot, her arms are on the pinhole. Reporters Zhu Danyang photo
Understanding of Hangzhou Sixth People's Hospital, director of strength has been five years time, it was his contact in the interview, the first to call me.
"I want to save a person, do not know how to do?" 9 pm on Friday, the doctor's voice when the phone both tired and helpless.
Does she have the wrong
Can not be life-desire?
Doctors want to save the strong age is a 21-year-old girl suffering from meningitis. This is a long time, there is cure, not too difficult to cure the disease. "The lack of $ 20,000. There is health! Is not dead!"
I interrupted him, "of course, to save it!"
I hear the sound of a long sigh - "she has AIDS, she had a special experience, she was poor, had owed the hospital 10000, her parents took my hand and cried to be discharged, she also seems to give up ... "
I did not speak, understand the instant when the doctor speaks, revealing tone of anxiety, pain and tangled.
The doctor repeatedly asked me: "Is there any way you help her?"
Moment, I
Speechless.
He eagerly said: "This is a living person! A life ah!
"Yeah she was only 21 years old, still so young. My daughter is only 2 years older than she Yeah.
"She's meningitis cured me completely sure!
"She can control AIDS, treatment free follow-up by national policies, she can live for decades, have a lot of time yet."
Finally, almost pleading tone, he asked me: "Does she have been wrong, we can not have desire for life?"
Doctors, 58 times stronger, 33-year career in medicine.
15 years ago, he turned from the general practitioner specializing in infection control and AIDS research.
I think that he engaged in a need to have dedicated career. Over the years, his department, there are many doctors and nurses are diverted or transferred to other departments go, he always in the.
Such a good doctor, can move his patients, there is always good? There are real? Or some other not the same, right?
The day before yesterday and yesterday, six hospitals in the city I infection ward spent two afternoons to observe about the girl.
$ 20,000 to save or not save?
I put her story to you.
Go back
Is to die
June 27, Monday, 6pm. Times stronger doctors impressed -
Half an hour ago, Sir Run Run Shaw Hospital, call: There is a meningitis detected in the blood of female patients suffering from AIDS, rushed to the hospital to the city six.
I stand in front of the hospital doctors and Tongyong Xi and so on. Shortly after 6:00, 120 ambulance arrived, carrying a stretcher under a working girl.
She was in poor condition. Pale, bloodless lips, thin stature. She got up and asked about the history, simply stop instability.
I told her: "You were sent here to rule us without any discrimination to you, you can rest assured treatment." She does not have any eyes look.
"At that time, she was very ill very heavy, we pulled her back from the gate of hell." In the doctor's office, Tong Yongxi doctors excitedly said to me, we looked at her a little better - her headache better, you can eat, and can come down to earth is gone, will laugh, and would quietly say thank you ... we are so many doctors, nurses, spent a lot of effort to save her back.
Last Monday, the doctor just to go to work, the girl when her mother went to the doctor's office, said: "We want to go back."
The day before, the girl her mother into 2000 yuan just to pay hospital charges.
"Because all the money Doutaochulai, or not. One million dollars owed to the hospital, we will gradually repay." Her mother nearly tears.
"You continue to back the local government do?" The doctor so I asked the mother to tears trickling water, could not speak, waved his hand.
"I know I nod, she go back, that is to die." Discharged when doctors did not agree.
The next day, when the director of launch
Departments contribute to the girl inside.
I am eager to ask
She is only silence silence silence
Yesterday afternoon, I saw the girl in the doctor's office.
She came softly, it is very young, there is no trace of white on the face wrinkles, blemishes and spots a little bit.
Handsome, thin, petite stature, baggy clothes to cover hospitalization in the body.
Her clear, distinct eyes, looked at me as if sight of the bottom, revealing to the kind of deep sadness, I can not find words to describe.
When the doctor told her that this is Express correspondent Sally, my good friend, we all work together to help you find a way.
Her back slightly hunched, head down, fingers of both hands with each other wildly Kouzhao. I do not know fear or tension, toe kept inside shrink.
"Slippers are red, like it?"
"Love."
"Why?"
"Above a small rabbit."
"Favorite white, fresh."
She quietly waiting to ask questions. I ask, she replied one, just say a few words each time.
"You talk about the difficulties of your home, your future plans?" The director raised his voice, sad to say: "We did not give up, how can you give up?"
She looked up, his lips moving, or silence.
We called in her mother, mother a dialect, almost no way to understand the clusters of sentences. Mom said some off, she translated some, probably said -
They came from Jiangxi, especially a small remote village, is open fields, have to leave town for a long mountain, sit more than an hour car.
She grew especially obedient. Help parents work the fields, planting, seed potatoes, seven-year-old when you can dry from 6 am to 6 pm.
Family's source of income is only 4 acres of land, as well as do bamboo handiwork.
Poor, the children have no money to study.
Brother read the first day, do plasterers had.
Sister read the first two days, to garment factory workers.
She read the first two days, nor read of.
She grew up in old clothes to wear her sister and relatives give her a orange sportswear, very much. She sports the best, skipping one minute to jump over a lower. She was a child kept a yellow and white cat, a rare fish to eat, she saved the cat to eat.
17-year-old mother insisted that her daughter left home to "work" was cheated out of. "Our village and I said, 'I take your daughter to the big cities to sell clothes. Know where she would go to KTV. How she had been lied to me ah."
Mom cried when the girl was deeply inserted into the hair hands and fingers, forced her face buried in her arms, or silence.
She said nothing
To protect the man she once loved?
Because HIV infection to investigate the cause of the girl, when doctors and doctors from the girl child herself, her mother, her sister there, inquired in detail about the girl's sexual experience.
2007, 17 years old
The girl in her sister's garment factory workers. "After six months, because about a boyfriend. Bet her mom dad home."
The end of 2007, the village was said to Tongxiang sell clothing with the girl. The girl went.
"It was a KTV, the villagers helped me make-up, call me shuffling plates to help guests song. To accompany singing. The first time was with a middle-aged man, a fellow took me to dinner to recognize, there is no money."
2009 to the beginning of this year, in Suzhou, a KTV, the basic is to accompany singing. "Paid sexual services?" The doctor asked. She answered again and again, insisted "I am not introduced. Otherwise, so many years, it will not no little money saved up."
"Not once?" The doctor asked. She whispered, not the time to pay the rent, but also before.
Doctors and child when doctors looked at each other, asked: "Do you have boyfriend? With her boyfriend for years?"
Girl A: "broke up. Cohabitation more than a year."
When doctors suspect that "you will not be passed to your boyfriend?"
Girls do not want to talk, ask anxious, replied: "I do not know what he did, he and I have split up."
The atmosphere a little tense.
On the way back, I do not understand why she would not help, at least talk about the poor?
Her silence, so I have a sense of frustration. But when she turned away, that half-back arched body of lingering in my mind.
She wanted to learn to dance
To shop
She wants their child is not the same after the flies
She had waiters tried to candidates
I want to know her. Last night, I logged girl QQ space, she comments:
At 12:38 on July 10th, hope Where?
At 7:59 on July 15, not so much money to see a doctor?
At 17:49 on July 18, a good pain.
July 16, the girl's ex-boyfriend who came to see her.
I have a strong director to the era of ex-boyfriend to a girl's phone (by the time officers asked her boyfriend are currently no signs of the onset of AIDS).
Large 3-year-old boyfriend than girls, middle school, he says he is in Suzhou, a small staff of a company. "She generally know what I do." Boyfriend said.
His eyes the girl is this -
June 22, 2010 at Suzhou. A friend made an appointment for dinner. She came, as if shining. We are good, she said, as if everything has to rely on.
Her work in the KTV, I know. She and I said, no, I believe her. However, this thing, we had a fight many times, let her go.
She also promised me that one out. A day without work, she pretended to busy, in fact, in the street and turn. May be no qualification, candidates may fail waiters do not know how, for some time did not find a job. For some time, complex rough.
My home no money, I earn every month to 2000 dollars, she generally is the case. Rent $ 800 house is 10 square meters room, inside a bed, a computer, the toilet is common.
No money, when the two of us one day to eat a bowl of ramen 6 dollars, and then sat on the bed, do not go out and chat. I said, I'm going to learn to drive up the goods, to start up a company, you as a boss. She said she wanted for my baby, the child later to lead a different life.
Last October, I went to Xi'an, home to learn to drive, spent all our money, a total of more than ten thousand pieces. The most money, she sent me 1000 dollars, I do not know how she got it. This money is really put to the emergency.
You love her?
"Innocent, cute." Boyfriend said.
"Why break up?"
"Because this year's Chinese New Year, New Year I went to her house, no gifts, then there is no money, spent a lot of toll on her Mom and Dad do not like me so broke up three months ago. (Girls mother said, relatives said the boy was too poor, the New Year did not bring a gift, people do not face)
"Last month, she called to tell me a headache, go to Run Run Shaw Hospital detected meningitis, AIDS is the later things I know, I was afraid."
"She has AIDS, and meningitis, the money you help her?"
Her boyfriend, said: "Yes. I just went to see her, I will give her the number she saw me, crying into a ball mud, that recognize a life."
She asked
I have no hope?
Yesterday afternoon, the girl due to meningitis, headache quickly broken up, and can only sit.
I am in her ears and saying: "You ex-boyfriend that you raise money for medical treatment."
Moment, great big tears slide down from the eyes. This is the first time I saw her two days crying. She asked: "I have no hope?"
The girl opened the bedside drawer, pills, tablets, a few apples, empty plastic bags, towels, nothing else.
Asked her mother, but also how much money? Mother some embarrassment, dig dig by hand pocket, palm spread out, is clenched sweaty two $ 100. Mother said, her father has returned home field should turn, think of Hangzhou to work, may be able to earn some money. "This year there had
13 acres of it can probably be making two or three million, now forget. "
Impression in the sister, the sister, smiling face, often hanging.
Just remember my mother, her daughter was born, 'wow' is heard especially loud. Now only a day guarding her. She was also a white-haired people who sent hair preparation. "The thought of this, mind you cool."
Yesterday went away, a strong director in the city six times the hospital entrance hung a sign and donation box, above the written proposal, which has a:
We appeal to all the friends out of the hands of friendship to help a young girl, let her ride out the storm, to the students hope to the long road of life.
(Thanks to the help of correspondent yellow color red)
Source: City Express Author: Reporters Zhang Shu Editor: Zheng Haiyun |
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