“今天,我们要讨论的,是一个敏感话题。”昨日,湖南大学医院2楼会议室,36名刚刚结束军训的09级文学院新生围坐一圈。这里正在开讲的,是他们进入大学以来的第一堂性教育课。
这些刚进入大学校园的90后们,有些尴尬,有些忸怩,甚至坐立不安。他们没有想到的是,5分钟以后,他们会笑得前仰后合,直不起腰,然后开怀畅谈“性”这个平时讳莫如深的话题。第一次和异性开诚布公地谈“性”,第一次往仿真香蕉上套避孕套,第一次知道艾滋病的传播速度有多快……还有许多个“第一次”,将在这次时长为2个小时的培训内发生。
本报记者赵晶 实习生尹依依 通讯员冯沛恒 长沙报道
一群彼此尚不熟悉的男男女女,要如何开口讨论平时讳莫如深的性话题?别担心,培训师们自有妙招。昨日,为新生们进行培训的,是来自湖南大学同伴教育同盟的培训师们。这个正式成立于2006年的社团,是湖南大学唯——个从事生殖健康与艾滋病预防同伴教育的公益类社团。
洞房花烛夜游戏
学生们在哄笑声中“性脱敏”
与严肃的教学不同,同伴教育培训采用的是一种“非常亲切”的方式。培训师都是年纪相仿的同学,以班级为单位,带领着大家通过游戏、角色扮演、头脑风暴、快速联想等方式,以达到生殖健康知识以及艾滋病预防知识的传播,将知识寓于轻松快乐的活动中。“轻松得就像同伴们在卧谈一样。”同伴教育同盟负责人、湖大文学院06级学生李雪说,“同伴教育同盟”的名字,正是由此得来。
“现在我们来做一个叫做洞房花烛夜的游戏。请大家每人讲一个成语,这个成语要带有动词,或者是动词性质的。”培训师、湖南大学文学院07级学生孙磊给大家下了一个“圈套”。“势如破竹”、“一针见血”、“龙腾虎跃”、“欢呼雀跃”、“敢为人先”……一个接一个的成语从同学们口中说了出来。
36个同学全部说完后,培训师孙磊公布了“谜底”。“现在,我们每人在自己说的成语前加几个字,连成一个完整的句子,然后充满自信地大声说出来!”男生们要加上的,是“洞房花烛夜大哥哥我()”;女生们则要加上“洞房花烛夜小妹妹我()”。大家所说的成语,即是洞房花烛夜的“表现”。
“洞房花烛夜大哥哥我势如破竹!”“洞房花烛夜小妹妹我欢呼雀跃。”……每个人都开始“后悔”自己开始说出的成语。哄笑声中,气氛一下子变得轻松和活跃,现场气氛出现了首次高潮。
“其实这些成语本身并不可笑,但是加上了前缀以后,无形中就联想到了性的场景,赋予了‘性’的敏感度。”孙磊说。这个小游戏,不但打开了气氛,更重要的是让新生们理解到性是很自然的,没必要谈性色变,从而完成了“性脱敏”。
“天哪,半分钟我们全被感染了!”
野火游戏
“这个游戏之所以叫‘野火游戏’,是取自‘野火烧不尽’的意思。”李雪说。野火游戏的规则是,所有的参与者背对圆心围成一个圆圈,闭上眼睛。主持人选择其中3位同学作为特殊身份者,轻拍他们的肩膀,其他人则不知情。然后所有人开始半分钟的自由握手,特殊身份者在握手时要轻抠对方手心,而被抠到的人,在之后的握手中也要轻抠对方手心,如此循环。
“现在请没被抠到手心的同学站出来。”半分钟过后,大家发现,除了一个女生不知自己有没有被抠外,所有同学都被抠了。“这个游戏其实是一个比喻。”李雪告诉大家。握手一次,就代表高危行为一次。而最初的3位被拍的同学,则代表HIV携带者。“天哪,半分钟的时间我们就全被感染了!”参与游戏的同学无不惊叹。
“这个游戏除了告诉大家HIV传播速度很快之外,更重要的是要让同学们明白在HIV传播的过程当中,人们应该更加关注行为,选择安全的行为,学会自我保护。”李雪说。
避孕套步骤排序游戏
毫不忌讳往仿真香蕉戴避孕套
相亲女方:“您觉得爱情的基础就是性吗?没有怎么了,照样能白头到老。当然,我的意思不是完全不能有,但是别太频繁。”相亲男方:“那你觉得多长时间算不频繁呢?”相亲女方:“(伸出一个手指头)这是我的理想。”相亲男方:“一个月一次?”相亲女方:“一年一次!”
这个来自电影《非诚勿扰》里的经典段子,在培训中播放后,引起了“性与爱情的关系”的探讨,也随之引出了如何进行安全的性行为的思考。对于这些刚刚走入大学校门的新生来说,如何避孕和自我保护还是一个新鲜的话题。培训师们,选择用一个游戏来教新生们安全套的使用方法。
“请15位志愿者上台来,每人抽取1张卡片。”同伴教育同盟将安全套的使用方法,分解为15个步骤,写在15张卡片上,然后请拿到卡片的同学们,按照步骤的先后顺序来排队。
“大家拿到卡片以后千万别激动!”抽到写有“小心打开安全套包装”、“性交”、“射精”、“在根部按住安全套,抽出阴茎”等内容的卡片的同学们面面相觑,但很快开始寻找“自己的位置”。“错了,错了,你要站这里。”这时,台下的同学你一言我一语地指挥台上的同学来。
而最尴尬的,要算拿到“勃起”这张卡片的同学了,因为他不知道自己该往哪儿站。
究竟是要站在“将安全套沿阴茎卷到根部”之后呢,还是站在“小心打开安全套包装”之前呢?“应该是戴上了再勃起吧!”“不对,是先勃起了再戴!”同学们七嘴八舌地争论着。
最后,在培训师的指点下,排序终于“尘埃落定”。但知道了步骤还不行,还得实际操作一下。这时,同伴教育同盟的组织者们,拿来了两大箱仿真塑料香蕉和避孕套,发给每位新生一套。有了培训前阶段对性的认识的正确引导,每位同学都毫不忌讳地操作起来。
(本文来源:
潇湘晨报 )
For the first time: to the simulation of banana wearing a condom (Figure)
2009-09-20 08:19:00 Source: Red Net - Xiaoxiang Morning News (Changsha)
"Today, we have to discuss is a sensitive topic." Yesterday, Hunan University Hospital, 2nd floor conference room, 36 had just completed their military training of 09 college students sitting around the circle text. Here are lecture is the first time since they entered the University of church sex education courses.
These have just entered the university campus, after the 90 who have a little embarrassed, and some self-conscious, and even fidgeting. They did not expect that, five minutes later, they will laugh rock with laughter, Zhibuqiyao, and then happily talked about "sex" is usually reticent about the topic. The first and frank talk about sex "sex" for the first time to the simulation of the banana on the cover of condoms, the first time that the spread of AIDS and how fast ... ... There are many "first", will be the time length of 2 occurred within hours of training.
Intern reporter Zhao Jing Yin, Yi-Yi Feng Pei-heng, Changsha correspondent reports
A group of men and women are familiar with each other yet, how can usually reticent about open discussion of sexual topics? Do not worry, trainers have their own coup. Yesterday, for the training of students who are from Hunan University, the training of peer education alliance masters. This was formally established in 2006, societies, Hunan University, the only - one in reproductive health and HIV prevention peer education classes in public associations.
Wedding night games
Students in the burst of laughter in the "desensitization"
And serious teaching is different from peer education and training adopted a "very cordial" manner. Trainers are all students of a similar age to the class as a unit, and led us through games, role-playing, brainstorming, rapid Lenovo, etc., in order to achieve reproductive health and AIDS prevention knowledge, the dissemination of knowledge of knowledge resides in the activities of more relaxed and happy in. "Easy to get as companions, as in lying about." Peer education alliance responsible person of Lagos College of 06 students in Li Xue said, "peer education alliance," the name, it is from these documents.
"Now we do one called the wedding night's game. Please everyone say a phrase, this phrase should be with a verb or a verb in nature." Trainer, Hunan University, College of Liberal Arts 07 students under the Sun Lei for everyone a "trap." "Irresistible force", "sharply", "hustle and bustle," "rejoice," "pioneers" ... ... one after another proverb from the mouth, said the students out.
36 students all finished, the training division Lei Sun announced the "mystery." "Now, each of us in front of their own idiom to say a few words, and even into a complete sentence, and then confidently say it out loud!" Boys would like to add is "the wedding Yeda brother, I () "; the girls will have to add" wedding night sister I (). " Members have said idioms, that is, their wedding night "performance."
"My brother's wedding Yeda like gangbusters!" "Wedding night sister and I cheered." ... ... Everyone has been, "regret" and he started to say idioms. Burst of laughter, the atmosphere suddenly becomes relaxed and active, and the atmosphere appeared for the first time climax.
"In fact, the phrase itself is not ridiculous, but with the prefix after virtually a connection with the sexual scenes, giving the 'sex' sensitivity." SUN Lei said. This little game, not only opened up the atmosphere, more importantly, is to allow students who understand that sex is natural, no need to talk about sex discoloration, thus completing the "desensitization."
"God, half a minute we were all infected!"
Wildfire Games
"This game was called 'wild game', is derived from 'wild fire endless' means." Xue said. Wildfire rules of the game, all the participants with his back to center of a circle surrounded by a circle, close your eyes. Choose one of three students to host a special status as a person, tap them on the shoulder, others unknowingly. The freedom of everybody to start half a minute and then shook hands with special status in the handshake when the other side of light to pull the palm of the hand, not being stingy to the people, the government must shake hands after the light to pull each other's palm of the hand, and so on.
"Now please do not be stingy students stand up to the palm of the hand." After half a minute, we discovered that, in addition to a girl I do not know that they have not been to pull, all students were to pull the. "This game is actually a metaphor." Xue told to everyone. Handshake time, on behalf of a high-risk behaviors. The first three students were shot, then on behalf of HIV carriers. "God, half a minute of time we have all been infected!" Participate in the game the students are all amazed.
"This game is apart from to say that HIV transmission is fast, it is more important is to make students understand the process of HIV transmission, people should pay more attention to behavior, choice of safe behavior, learn self-protection." Xue said.
Sort game condom Steps
No taboo to wear a condom banana Simulation
Deeply attached to each woman: "Do you think love is the basis of sex? No how, and still be able to old age to old age. Of course, I do not mean can not have, but Do not be frequent." Deeply attached to each man: "What do you think how long count frequently do not? "deeply attached to each woman:" (extending a finger) This is my ideal. "deeply attached to each man:" once a month? "deeply attached to each woman:" once a year! "
This comes from the movie "You Are the One," where the classic scripts, training in play, the rise of "sex and love relationship" to explore, but also followed leads on how to conduct safe sex thinking. For these students had just graduated from college into it, how to contraception and self-protection is still a fresh topic. Training of teachers who choose to use a game to teach students who use condoms.
"Please 15 volunteers came to power, each taking a card." Peer education, condom use alliance will break down into 15 steps, written on 15 cards, then please get the cards to students, follow the steps the order to line up.
"You get the card after the 10 million get excited!" Be able to get to write a "carefully open the condom package," "sexual intercourse", "ejaculate", "root hold in the condom out of the penis," and so the card students looked at each other, but soon began looking for "their place." "Wrong, wrong, you have to stand here." At this time, the audience made me a student you have a phrase to direct students to the stage.
The most embarrassing to calculate the got the "erection," Is this card the students, because he did not know where to stop.
What is to stand "will be rolled up to the root of the penis condom along" after it, or whether "open the condom package carefully" before it? "It should be put on the re-erection of the bar!" "No, it should first re-erection of the Day!" Students rushes to argue with.
Finally, in the training division of the pointing, the sort finally "settled." But then I realized the steps is not enough, have to look at the actual operation. At this time, peer education union organizers who brought two boxes of bananas and simulation of plastic condoms distributed to every new set. With the training of pre-awareness of sexual correct guidance, each student had to operate without any taboo.
(This article Source: Xiaoxiang Morning News)