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《南昌防艾护士微博引网友热议》·秋梅与丈夫病房执手相望泪眼(图)
大江网-信息日报 发布时间： 2010-12-11 03:36
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最近，一篇名为《致秋梅——一名医务工作者写给艾滋病患者的信》的原创帖在网上发布后，受到网友极大关注。本报对写信者——南昌市第九医院感染二区护士长胡敏华和帖中主人公“秋梅”一事进行报道后，引起读者关注。
日前，秋梅的病情开始恶化，3日开始陷入深度昏迷，全身不能动弹，只能用眨眼睛来表达自己的意愿。为了实现秋梅想和丈夫见面的最后心愿，10日上午，记者和医院相关人员向江西省监狱管理局递交了申请。按正常程序，申请需要经过多道审批手续，也需要一定时间，但监狱管理局了解事情经过后，特事特办。当日下午，在病房里，秋梅和丈夫终于见上了一面……
丈夫呼唤昏迷中的秋梅
病情恶化
秋梅陷入昏迷
秋梅被送进医院时，就已进入艾滋病病发期，而医生也告诉记者，她到了晚期，因为没能坚持吃药和治疗，她体内的病毒迅速繁殖蔓延，且其肺部也出现感染。虽然，在住院的近1个月里，秋梅得到了医护人员的悉心照顾，但病魔却没有一刻停止对她的折磨。3日上午，胡敏华护士长突然发现秋梅不能说话了。医生立即进行了检查，原来秋梅食道感染了真菌，别说说话，就连吞咽流质也是一件困难的事。
当晚，秋梅陷入昏迷，胡敏华焦急地守在床边，观察着医疗仪器上的图标是否有变化，生怕秋梅挺不住了。好在当晚秋梅度过了最危险的时期，第二天病情开始有些平稳。昏迷几天后，秋梅醒了过来，但目光一直死死盯着病房门口，似乎在等着谁。医护人员询问她有什么需求时，她也总是眨眨眼睛。“我明白她的意思，就问她，是不是很想见见丈夫，她此刻眨得次数就特别多。”胡敏华说，之后，秋梅又昏迷了。
多方努力
家属起草申请
10日9时许，记者再次来到病房，秋梅脸色蜡黄，头往右侧耷拉着，眼睛微睁。“艾滋病晚期患者有很多并发症，秋梅还有脑瘤，压迫了她的神经，所以才会昏迷。”胡敏华告诉记者，8日中午,秋梅出现心脏衰竭的情况，很危险，大家担心她挺不过去。但秋梅很顽强，医生说她有强烈的求生欲望，这在之前的治疗中很少见。“别人不知道为什么，我最清楚，要不是想见丈夫的强烈愿望支撑着她，估计她最后一口气就已经咽下去了，也挨不到今天。”胡敏华说道。
因为家属很少来看秋梅，要想让她和丈夫见上最后一面，必须由秋梅的家属起草申请。于是，记者和院方尝试与秋梅家人联系，最终在众人的努力下，她的家人在10日上午把书面申请送来了。为此，记者和院方决定，立即向监狱管理部门递交申请，不过家属并未能随记者同行，这多少让人感觉有些许酸楚。
记者牵线
监狱特事特办 夫妻相见
申请当即获准
10日10时20分，记者来到江西省监狱管理局，狱政管理处负责人在看过申请后说：“这个事情我们在《信息日报》看到了，我们也很感动。秋梅最后的意愿，应该得到满足。我已向局领导汇报过，上面基本同意了。”不过，该负责人表示，正常的申请程序，需将书面申请递交给犯人所在监狱，再由监狱向上级主管部门申请报告，最后再由该局相关部门和领导审批。听完后，记者心中一凉，因为走完这些程序需要一些时间，而且第二天就是周末。但是，秋梅拖不了，她的生命太虚弱，随时可能离开人世。
最后，该负责人拨通了秋梅丈夫所在的新康监狱的联系电话。前后不到10分钟，该负责人答复记者，特事特办，简化手续，不需要书面申请，已通知监狱当天就可以安排秋梅丈夫前往医院。
夫妻病房相见
10日15时30分，在两位副监狱长的陪同下，秋梅丈夫陶某步履沉重地走进了病房。陶某看上去有些黝黑，个子不高，精神不错，很难看得出他也是一名艾滋病患者。站在病床边，陶某有些难以接受眼前的现实。看着骨瘦如柴的妻子，他低着头，一句话也说不出来。几分钟后，陶某弯下腰凑近妻子，伸出戴着镣铐的手抚摸妻子的脸，终于再也忍不住，泪水沿着面颊流了下来。
“10月底时，她来看过我，那时她还很好，也没这么瘦，精神也不错，还特别叮嘱我要好好活下去。就这么短短1个多月的时间，怎么就虚弱成这样，都是我害的。”陶某说。陶某看上去有些不善言辞，对于医护人员和关心秋梅的人们，他只能用“谢谢”两字来表达自己的心意。
丈夫唤醒昏迷妻子
其间，胡敏华一直观察着陶某，她说，看得出陶某在狱中得到了较好的治疗。“他已坚持两年服药，病情一直控制得很好。”随行的狱警说。相比之下，孤苦伶仃的秋梅就没有这么幸运。家人的离弃，一些人的另眼对待，早已让秋梅放弃了生的信念。“秋梅不恨你（陶某），她和我们提得最多的也是你，在别人眼里，她可能有诸多不好，但她是一个称职的妻子，一个称职的母亲。”胡敏华的一席话再次让陶某伤心不已。
此时的秋梅仍在昏迷中，医护人员也尝试呼喊她的名字，让她醒过来，但秋梅没有任何反应。陶某也尝试着呼喊妻子，奇迹竟然发生，秋梅右眼微微地睁开了，嘴巴也动了一动，似乎想说什么，但因身体虚弱，根本出不了声。见到两人深情相望，在场人们的心也安抚了些许。不过几分钟后，秋梅再度昏迷。
争献爱心
民警自发捐款1800元
采访中，记者还了解到，江西省新康监狱的相关负责人和民警们都看到了有关秋梅的报道，也有意想安排他们能见上一面。在记者提出申请之前，新康监狱就已向上级部门递交了报告，表达了这一意愿。此外，了解到陶某家庭状况后，民警们进行了爱心捐款，共募集到1800余元。10日，这笔捐款也送到了医院。“钱虽不多，但是我们的一番心意，我们知道现在钱对秋梅来说并不重要了，重要的是让她在走之前不留下遗憾，让活着的人能感受到爱的温暖。”一位民警对记者说。
●记者手记
我们也了却心愿
在之前对秋梅的采访中，秋梅不止一次问我：“还能不能见丈夫一面。”我答应了，但之后有些疑虑，因为我们知道秋梅的丈夫是严重刑事罪犯（因吸毒贩毒进监狱），被判了死缓。能不能真的实现秋梅最后的愿望，记者心里一直没底。当我们来到江西省监狱管理局，这一切顾虑都被打破。监狱管理部门特事特办，这个本以为很难实现的愿望，就“突然”成为现实。当我们看着陶某恋恋不舍地走出病房，不断回头看病床上的妻子时，心里酸酸的。不过，我们也庆幸终于了却了秋梅最后的心愿。
也许秋梅很快就会离开我们，但她的故事和经历也告诉我们，病魔并不可怕，只要我们坚持，只要我们有信念，只要我们有爱，什么都可以实现，什么艰难险阻都可以跨过去。感谢所有爱她的人和她爱的人！
■首席记者黄祥晟 文/图
来源：( 大江网-信息日报 )
"AIDS Prevention nurses microblogging cited Nanchang hot friends" * Qiumei the hand across the room with her husband, tears in their eyes (Figure)
Dajiang Wang - Information Daily Posted: 2010-12-11 03:36 Recently, an article entitled "To Qiumei - a medical worker a letter addressed to AIDS," the original post available online, there have been great friends major concern. Newspaper on the writer - the Second District of Nanchang ninth hospital infection and the post of head nurse hero Hu Minhua "Qiumei" to conduct reports, the cause readers attention.
Recently, Qiu Mei's condition began to deteriorate, 3, began to fall into a deep coma, the body can not move, can only blink to express their will. In order to achieve Qiumei want to see the last wish of her husband, 10 am, reporters and related personnel to the hospital in Jiangxi Province Prison Administration to submit the application. According to normal procedures, the application need to go through multi-channel approval procedures, also need some time, but after the Prison Service to understand what has happened on everything. In the afternoon, in the ward, Qiu Mei and her husband finally see above the side ... ...
Calling her husband unconscious in Qiumei
Disease progression
Qiumei coma
Qiu Mei was taken to the hospital, had access to HIV disease stage, and the doctor also told reporters that she went to the late, as failing to adhere to medication and treatment, she spread the virus multiply rapidly, and the lung infection is also . While in the hospital for nearly a month, the Qiumei been careful to take care of the medical staff, but the moment the disease has not stopped her torture. 3 am, Hu Minhua Qiu Mei nurse suddenly found unable to speak. Was examined by a doctor immediately, the original Qiumei esophageal fungal infection, let alone speak, and even swallowing liquids is a difficult task.
That night, Qiumei into a coma, Hu Minhua anxiously waited at the bedside, watching the icon on the medical equipment whether there are changes, for fear Qiumei Tingbu Zhu was. Fortunately, spent the night Qiumei the most dangerous period, beginning the next day some stable condition. Coma a few days later, Qiu Mei woke up, but the eyes have gazed at the doorway, who seems to be waiting. Demand for health care workers asked her what, she always winks. "I understand what she meant to ask her, is not really want to see her husband, she was the number on the blink at the moment more special." Hu Minhua said after Qiumei and coma.
Various efforts
The drafting of an application family
10 at 9 am, reporters once again came to ward Qiumei sallow face, head and Wang Youce bowed, eyes Weizheng. "There are many complications in patients with advanced AIDS, Qiumei also brain tumors, oppressed her nerves, so will a coma." Hu Minhua told reporters, 8 at noon, Qiumei the case with heart failure, very dangerous, we worried about her not quite the past. But Qiumei very tenacious, the doctor said she has a strong desire to survive, which is rarely seen prior to treatment. "Other people do not know why, I know best, but for the strong desire to see her husband supported her, guess she had to swallow last breath, and also suffer less than today." Hu Minhua said.
Because family members rarely see Qiumei, to want to see above the last time she and her husband, the family must be drafted by the Qiumei application. Thus, journalists and hospital try to Qiumei their families, ultimately the efforts of everyone, her family in the morning of the 10th sent a written application. To this end, journalists, and the hospital decided to immediately submit their applications to the prison administration, but not with the press and fellow family members, which many people feel a slight bitterness.
Reporter pull strings
Husband and wife meet the prison on everything
Allowed to apply immediately
At 10:20 on the 10th, the reporter went to Jiangxi Provincial Bureau of Prisons, who read the prison administration is responsible for application, said: "The things we in the" Information Daily "see, we are also very moved. Qiumei final wishes should be met. I have been leaders on the Board, the above basically agreed. "However, the official said, the normal application procedures, a written application must be submitted to the prison where inmates, then to the superior department in charge of the prison report, and finally the authority and leadership of relevant departments for approval. After listening, press the bitter, because these procedures take some time to finish, and the next day is the weekend. However, Qiumei delay can not, her life was too weak, may die at any time.
Finally, the head of her husband called the Qiumei prison where the new telephone health. Less than 10 minutes before and after, the official reply to a reporter on everything, simplify procedures, no written application, has informed the prison the same day her husband went to the hospital can be arranged Qiumei.
Ward couples meet
At 15:30 on the 10th, the two deputy warden, accompanied by her husband Taomou Qiumei trudged into the ward. Taomou looks a little dark, not tall, the spirit of good, hard to see that he is also an AIDS patient. Stood bedside, Taomou some unacceptable in the present. Look skinny wife, his head down, to say a word. A few minutes later, bent down and leaned Taomou wife, shackled hand stroked out his wife's face, and finally could no longer hold, tears streaming down along the cheek.
"10 end of the month, she came to see me, when she was very good, did not so thin, the spirit is good, also told I was going to live in particular. For such a short period of time more than 1 month, how weak in such a way, all my victims. "Taomou said. Taomou looks a little ineloquent, health care and care for people Qiumei, he can only "thank you" to the word in his mind.
Husband, wife wake up coma
Meanwhile, Hu Minhua Taomou been watching, she said, has been in prison Taomou see better treatment. "He has insisted for two years of medication, the disease has been well under control." Accompanying the guards said. In contrast, solitary Qiumei not so lucky. Abandoned the family, some people treat the other eye, had already been born Qiumei abandoned faith. "Qiumei do not hate you (Taomou), she provided us the most is you, in the eyes of others, she may have a lot of bad, but she is a competent wife, a good mother." Hu Minhua's remarks heartbroken again by Taomou.
Qiumei still in a coma at this time, the staff also tried to shout her name, so she woke up, but Qiumei nothing happens. Taomou also try calling his wife, a miracle did occur, Qiumei right eye slightly open, the mouth is also made a motion, it seems to say something, but weak, do not get sound. To see two loving the sea, the presence of people's heart a bit of comfort. But few minutes later, Qiumei again coma.
Competition show love
Civilian police 1,800 yuan voluntary contributions
Interview, the reporter also learned that the new health prison in Jiangxi Province and the police were responsible have seen reports about Qiumei also intends to arrange for them to see the kingdom on the side. Before making an application in the press, the new prison to have higher health department submitted a report, expressing the will. In addition, family status Taomou understand, the police have conducted a love donation, raised a total of more than 1,800 yuan. 10, this contribution also to the hospital. "Money though not much, but some of our minds, we know that money is not important for Qiumei, the important thing is to go before she does not regret it, so that the living can feel the warmth of love . "A police told reporters.
● Reporter Notes
We also gained a desire
In an interview before Qiumei, Qiumei more than once asked me: "can not see the side of her husband." I promised, but then some doubts, because we know Qiu Mei's husband is a serious criminal offenders (because of drug abuse and trafficking into prison), was sentenced to a stay of execution. Can you really achieve Qiumei last wish, the reporter I always did at the end. When we came to Jiangxi Bureau of Prisons, all concerns have been broken. Prison authorities on everything, this is difficult to achieve the aspirations of the thought to "suddenly" become a reality. When we look at Taomou reluctantly left the room, constantly looking back to see a doctor's wife in bed, the heart sour. However, we're glad we finally have a Qiumei a final wish.
Xu Qiumei also leave us soon, but her story and experience tell us that the disease is not terrible, as long as we insist, as long as we have faith, if we have love, what can be achieved, what difficulties and obstacles can be cross- in the past. Thank all love her and her loved ones!
■ chief reporter HUANG Xiang Sheng text / Chart
Source: (Dajiang Wang - Information Daily)
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